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Friday, June 22, 2007
The Market...
So to many of you who read this post, okay probably all, the market to you may be the grocery store, but for us single women out here to me the market to me refers to the market of single men and let me tell ya the selection is poor! I have recently come to the conclusion that men are so extroardinarly different from women that it is sometimes hard to believe we can co-exist at all! Take for example the male species does not seem to realize that there are boundaries to how far one should flirt, simple flirting is okay for friends, co-workers etc but this does not involve touching, seeking you out for talking, joking with you, talking about getting together to cook you a freaking cheeseburger! this does not constitute simple flirting, this has jumped another step to flirting when you are actually INTERESTED in someone. I do not think men understand this, how very frustrating it can be for us single women who are torn between wondering does he like me, is he interested or is this just another big ol' game we play in the land of single people. I am so ready to be off the singles market, it really is not a fun place to be, the hem and hawing of wonder and worry. I know I have posted about this single drudgery before and this really isn't to prod at that again because I think i have beat that dog to death, no sense in rehasing it again, this post is mainly to enlighten everyone (which you probably don't need enlightenment you have probably all been there before) that men need to get a clue! lol, hope everyones summers are going well, miss everyone, love you all!
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Hang in there Jen. If it makes you feel any better, they don't change even once they are married. They still don't have a clue!
well I dont know if that makes me feel better but I guess it does say something :P haha
I can understand your frustration! I never thought dating was fun. I wanted to skip the awkward, nervous stage and just get to the comfortable, totally-be-yourself stage. I have a feeling that you will meet 'him' when you aren't looking. You are such a fun person and you will meet your mate very soon....I just know it! :)
I know what you mean, I watch Courtney (15) and the guys that flirt with her and I know they have no interest, they just like to flirt and she falls right into it...girls just want to have someone pay attention to them and like them.
Hang in there....there really are decent guys out there, you just need to meet the right one and God knows who he is and when you are to meet him.
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